God made you alive together with him, when he forgave us all our trespasses, erasing the record that stood against us with its legal demands
Notice the move from “you” to “us”.
“Paul is acutely conscious that God did not simply forgive Gentiles with their long history of sinfulness and idolatry, but God also forgave the Jews with their long history of rebellion and sinfulness.”
As we approach people outside of a relationship with Jesus Christ-
We must understand that they are dead… in need of life.
We must also understand that we to would be dead if not for the Grace of God in Christ. What was given to us, we now offer to them.